I'm sorry we had to go ahead without asking you, we just had to do something about all the pain. It's up to you whether we do anything more to help you, okay?

[She hesitates to say it because it makes her uncomfortable telling him what to do, but if it's the only thing he's willing to listen to for now...]

You're allowed to say whether you want anything done or not, all right? [She wants to reach out and hold him so hard, it's difficult to stop herself.]